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Candid Reflections: Authentic Tales of Motherhood and Adoption
As Mother’s Day approaches, I reflect on my journey of motherhood and adoption filled with twists, turns, and unexpected joys. It’s been a long and often painful road filled with uncertainty and doubt. There were moments when I thought I might never become a mom, moments that broke me and tested my resolve. Yet, through the struggle, I found growth. It made me stronger and more confident and instilled in me a deeper appreciation for family. Dealing with infertility forced me to reassess my expectations of motherhood. It taught me to cherish the present joys rather than fixate on future hopes. My path to motherhood has been slower and different from others, but it’s precious nonetheless. Regardless of how one becomes a mother, the essence of motherhood lies in love, nurture, and unwavering support. If you are also going through a similar journey of infertility and need extra encouragement, I’ve created a free 8 day devotional titled “Blossoming in the Waiting“. This devotional is specifically designed to uplift and inspire those facing infertility. It provides daily reflections and encouraging scriptures to help you find peace, strength, and purpose in your journey. In this blog post, I’ll explore the complex journey…
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Coaching for Women: Uncover the Truth About What’s Stealing Your Joy
Feeling Stuck and Missing Joy? Does it ever feel like everyone else has figured out the secret to happiness, and you’re just left on the sidelines, wondering why joy seems so elusive? Maybe you wake up with a sense of heaviness, feeling like something’s missing, and you’re not quite sure how to get back to that place of contentment and peace. If you’ve been struggling to find joy in your everyday life, I want you to know you’re not alone—and more importantly, there’s hope. Life can be hard, and there are seasons where joy feels distant, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. This blog is here to help you navigate the challenges that are weighing you down, offering support and practical tools to guide you back to a place of wholeness and joy. What’s Really Stealing Your Joy? There are so many factors that can quietly chip away at your joy—sometimes without you even realizing it. Whether it’s emotional pain, relationship struggles, or just the overwhelming demands of life, these obstacles can pile up, leaving you feeling disconnected and stuck. Let’s look at a few common culprits that might be stealing your joy: If any of this hits…
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The Truth About Trying to Conceive: Dear Infertility, You Suck
Dear Infertility… You suck. You are a silent enemy, creeping in when I least expect and choosing to stay. I never expected you. I assumed that getting pregnant would be so easy. I never knew how hard trying to conceive was. You showed me how naïve I was. I thought I could ignore you and keep myself busy. But you continue to show up and make your presence known. In all the questions from well-wishers who ask, “How many kids do you have?” or “When will you start having kids?” I see my husband goofing around with my nieces and nephews; I see him holding my playing, laughing with our friends’ kids. Like daggers to my heart, reminding me what I do not have. And then there are those who jokingly say, “Are you sure you want kids? Are you really sure that you are ready for all of this?” They say it innocently. They do not know you, Infertility, like I do. But, oh, my heart. It feels like I am being stabbed. They do not know that I had been thinking about having children leading up to the decision to start trying to conceive. That was over two…
