• Mental Health

    On A Journey: How Suffering Produces Self Growth

    Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved.” – Helen Keller This message is for those who are going through difficult times: those experiencing infertility, who had a miscarriage, whose parent died, whose child died, whose children aren’t talking to them, who lost their job, who are going through a divorce, have experienced deep hurt from friends, are experiencing conflict with their family, diagnosed with cancer, feel lost, feel hopeless – to those who are suffering. Suffering is an unavoidable part of life, and it’s a universal experience. However, I have noticed a pattern as I’ve heard people’s stories of suffering. The individuals who don’t back down from their struggles but use them as opportunities to grow tend to gain inner confidence and steadfast joy. They have found how suffering can produce self-growth. “WHY DO BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE?”  “Here on Earth, you will experience many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” – John 16:33 (NLT) One question often asked in the midst of suffering is, “Why do bad things happen to good…